Achievement VS Relationship

Achievement VS Relationship

Which is more important?

Relationship.

Why?

Because achievement is only the result of your hard work or the end product created by your ability. Medals, Records and Certificate is simply to prove your capability to people who don't have time to know you.

Relationship is only strengthen via investment of time. The more time you spent with the person, the stronger the relationship it is. Relationship is almost the only thing that is as precious as time, if not it maybe much more valuable than time. Why?

Time is linear. But relationship is not, the growth on relationship may increase exponentially via memorable event. As long as we live, we will have time. So most of time, we simply try to make full use of time but relationship is the driving force of our life.

Why we live or why we want more time, it is simply because we want to maintain or having better relationship with family/friends or want to create more relationship.

But the idea on spending more time with family/friends seem to fade off.

People starting to complain 24 hours a days is not enough, but they end up spending more time on preparation of exam, in front of TV, stalking at Facebook, playing routine games, having self-entertainment, having more relationship with the money.

It is not wrong to spend time on things that mention above. Spending time on self-entertainment can be consider as maintaining a self-relationship which is good to keep yourself happy.

The problem is time distribution...when you over-spending time on non-living things instead of living human...you simply feel alone. Life without achievement is okay, but if life without a single relationship is terrible.

The day that you are on your deathbed, will you want to see your medals, money, games all around you...or you will want to have lot of family members and friends around you?

So the last question is "Do you want to have a better relationship with me?"

Haha...that sound weird...but my ang moh cui what to do leh?